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Friday, April 17, 2015

Goodbye Mrs. Durkin


Guest Post by Michael.

Goodbye Mrs. Durkin
Goodbye Mrs. Durkin, I'm sick and tired of workin'.
No more I'll dig your praties, no longer I'll be poor.
As sure as my name is Barney, I'm off to Califarny.
Instead of digging praties, I'll be digging lumps of gold.


Well, I have never had to dig potatoes for Mrs. Durkin, nor anyone else.  Nor have I ever gone digging for gold.  Nevertheless, after several days and many miles, here I am in California.

DAY 1: Go West...and west...and further west

The first day started dark and early.  Up at six, grabbed a cup of coffee, packed the cooler, kissed the kiddos and my wife and headed out. Bound for I-10 and the West Coast.  Shortly after sunrise, I realized that I was soon to be leaving the land of
bluebonnets, and had to get a last picture of The Crew in the State Flower of Texas.

By lunchtime, I had made it to Fort Stockton.  I decided that this would be a great place to pull off the road and take a picture at the remains of the actual frontier fort.  Fort Stockton was built before the Civil War (and rebuilt following) to guard the nearby Comanche Springs, and to defend the settlements from Comanche raids.  Calling home, Misa let me know that there was a driving tour of Fort Stockton, and reminded me to look for geocaches.  She also let me know of several local diners where I could get a good lunch.  All-in-all I spent almost two hours in Fort Stockton, instead of the anticipated 30 minutes, but it was time well spent.


 For Stockton also boasts the World's Largest Roadrunner.  No word, however, on a large coyote.

Faster....Must go FASTER!


From there I continued west to the El Paso.  There I spied a sign for the War Eagle Museum in Santa Theresa, NM.  I pulled in just after they locked the doors for the day.  As I was getting ready to pull back out, a museum worker informed me that, even though he was locking up the gates, there was an automatic gate off of the flight line, and that there was no hurry for me to leave.  So I took some time to check out their outdoor exhibits. 



Most spectacular were two World War Two bombers.  These were not permanent exhibits, but operational aircraft flown by the Confederate Air Force.  It was awesome to get to see these gallant warriors up close.


 The Crew also enjoyed getting a closer look at these magnificent aircraft.






Leaving the museum, I returned to I-10 to hit the New Mexico Welcome Station just over the border.  It had some historical information, and a lovely fountain where the Crew could cool their feet. 

After that...New Mexico seemed rather endless, even compared to the miles I had already spent crossing Texas.  Perhaps it is because the scenery along I-10 is very similar, or perhaps it is because there is nothing there after Las Cruces.  Even all of the billboards were advertising attractions in Arizona!


Looking back into Texas










I hit the Arizona border close to sunset, no welcome station here, just a sign.  Around 8PM local (10PM in Texas) I pulled into Tucson, road-weary but excited to spend a day with my sister and brother and their families.



Daily distance: about 900 miles
Daily travel time: almost 16 hrs



DAY 2: Tucson Interlude

After a quiet evening visiting with my sister, her husband, and her three dogs and a cat; I crashed hard.  At some point during the night, her 17yo poodle, Bailey, decided that I was warm and curled up in  the bed beside me.  My sister thought that it would be funny to get a picture of us, under the ballerina picture above the bed.

After breakfast, we headed out to the Pima Air Museum, located next to the Air Forces holding grounds of decommissioned aircraft, The Boneyard.  The museum was huge, so we did not go in, but we visited the gift shop, purchased a post card and found that there was a geocache just down the road.  As my sister had never cached before, she went with me to find it.  As we approached the location of the cache, I spied a nesting dove sitting on her hatchling on the top of a cactus.  The dove was a great model, holding still as I took her picture. As I did this, my sister found the cache hidden under another cactus.

We met our brother for lunch at a sushi buffet, and made plans to get together later that evening.  Then we drove over to a cousin's house.  He was working on his collection of remote controlled aircraft.  He has them mounted with cameras, and plans to use them to help local authorities conducting search-and-rescue operations.  We thought it would be great to send the Crew up on one of his aircraft, however they would not all fit.  So one lucky one got to fly while the others helped operate the controls.


That evening everyone came over, including another cousin, and we enjoyed some grilled foods and fruit.








Also, I received word that the Army would have a possible house for us as soon as I arrived in Monterey!


DAY 3: Crossing Arizona

This was by far the easiest day, and the shortest driving day.  That is not to say that it was quick and uneventful.  I had checked for geocaches heading out of Tucson, and found one at the Pinal Air Park. 
This appears to be a former Air Force Base, but is now used to store old wide-body commercial aircraft like Boeing 747s and Douglas DC-10s.  I found the cache just outside the gate, and headed back to the road. 



My GPS decided that I needed to go around, rather than through Phoenix, so I turned off onto I-8 and headed into the middle of nowhere.  My exit took me to Gila Bend.  There were no caches here, but plenty of dinosaurs and one very large Gila monster.  Then it was north bound back to I-10. 




Here I decided that I had no desire to venture anywhere near Los Angeles, and so I headed north-west.  Along a narrow little highway, I saw some armored vehicles in a small park in the town of Bouse, AZ.  I quickly pulled in and found that they marked the site of a camp that trained tank crews for Patton's army during the Second World War. 


From there, I continued north, through the Colorado Indian Nations Reservation and Parker, AZ.  Found a cache in Parker, and then drove along the Colorado River to Lake Havasu City. 



Stopped to look at a site that was supposedly home to Travel Bugs, I found the cache empty, but nearby appeared to be an old mining site.








While Lake Havasu City is a popular destination because of the lake, there is another, rather unique, place to visit.  In 1971, the city of London decided to modernize the bridges over the Thames.  In the process, it needed to replace the Century-and-a-half year old London Bridge.  Rather than see London Bridge fall for good, it was purchased and moved, brick-by-brick to northwest Arizona, and rebuilt in the desert.  When Lake Havasu was formed, a channel was dug under the bridge, so that it once again fulfilled its purpose.  Of course, it also served as a spot for a cleverly hidden cache!






Driving around the north-end of Lake Havasu, I finally reached California. While there was no welcome center, there was still a welcome of sorts.  California operates inspection checkpoints along its borders, to be sure that no one is bringing in any unauthorized plants or animals.  After this I soon reached my destination of Needles, CA, home of Snoopy's brother, Spike. 

Daily distance: about 370 miles
Daily travel time: 6 hrs

DAY 4: California Cruisin'

I attended Mass at lovely little St. Anne's Parish in Needles.  The priest was quite good, and obviously wanted his parishioners to understand the meanings of the Mass.  No joy on caches there, so on down the road to Barstow.  At a Rest Area off of I-40, I found a little cache and some unusual rock formations.   No luck with caches in Barstow, so I continued on down the road to Bakersfield. 


My ever resourceful wife had clued me in to some interesting caches down CA-46, including one near the location of James Dean's fatal car crash.  As the day was getting late, I decided to push on past Bakersfield to these caches.  I did find one along the way, where the highway crossed the Central California Canal,  and another where it crossed the oddly named "Brown Material" Road. 


Picking up some caches near the intersection of CA-41& -46, I found James Dean's memorial. By this time it was nearly dusk, and I was only 3/4 of the way to my destination.  I picked up US-101 near Paso Robles, in the middle of some beautiful vineyards.  US-101 follows the old Spanish Royal Road, el Camino Real, that connected the missions and settlements of Spanish California to Mexico. 


I pulled off to pass one of these missions, Mission San Miguel Arcangel. It was very lovely, but it was too late to visit.  Back onto the road and headed to Monterey.  I finally arrived at my hotel around 9 PM, but went back out to drive past the house that we had been offered.  It seemed very nice, and made me very excited to actually look inside the next morning.

Daily distance: just under 500 miles
Daily travel time: almost 8 hrs

Total distance: about 1800 miles
Total travel time: almost 30 hrs

DAY 5: A new home

I was able to tour the house the next morning.  While the bedrooms are smaller than is typical in Texas, they will do for the next year, and the kids can definitely spread out more.  I was able to get signed up for the house before starting the reporting process to my new duty station.







Saturday, April 11, 2015

Busy Day with Insects

While Michael is on his trip West (He is about 2/3 of the way there and will hopefully have a guest post about his adventures soon!), we have been busy here as well.

Today we were up before dawn and on our way to an Entomology contest in the next county over.  I post more about this on my 4H blog so go take a look and all the fun the youth had during the contest and while they waited for the results!

After the contest, we headed north about an hour's drive in time to pick up a honey extractor.  Yes!  We decided to make the insect theme going for the afternoon as well.

Last week when we made arrangements for a fellow beekeeper to take care of our hive for the year we are gone...we discovered that we had a busy little bee hive!  They had already FILLED their top super with honey for us!  Wasn't that a nice gift from them...now we can take Texas honey with us to California!

We have a great group of beekeepers here and the association has an extractor to loan out for members.

We had thought we would wait until tomorrow to actually do the extraction but we are going to be so busy the next few days...we took the time to just get the job done!

We harvested about 2 gallons of honey from our little hive...so proud of our bees!  This also means they are great pollinators...it is a good feeling to know that we can be a part of this amazing part of nature!  It always amazes me!

This was also our first time to extract honey by ourselves.  SO...thank you to all the beekeepers from our past who have helped us get to this point in our beekeeping experience...We could not have done it without all the knowledge we have been given over the years!








It was funny but messy...we had honey from head to toe by the time we completed the extraction and cleaned out all the equipment.









We also had help from our future bee queen...she even changed into her special beekeeper outfit to help!  She really enjoyed uncapping the cells!




The honey tasted so good...when we were close to the end of the extraction, I could not resist a little taste.  Looking back at the pictures now...I am reminded of the song...I'm bringing home a baby bumble bee!  I guess we should change it to honey bee!


A great day...but exhausted...more to come as we prepare for the big move.  God bless!




Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Westward HO!

If you did not read my April Fool's Day post, I encourage to stop and rad that one first.  It really explains a lot about the state of mind I was in just a week ago.  I will tell you that I was frustrated, but also willing to let it all go and give it over to the One who knows better about planning then anyone here on earth.

With that said, it is a funny thing...giving our lives completely over to God.  He finds a way to make it all right...and for myself...it makes me wonder why I cannot just do that the first time I feel my life going out of control.

So...once I gave in to my desire for control...THINGS HAPPENED!!!!!

Michael finally got his military orders for his school in California on Thursday.

Now...to give it all over to God just does not mean we sit back and do nothing...Michael has to leave this Thursday for a road trip across country.  We have a lot of red tape and hoops to jump through to make it possible for the rest of us to go with him.  But the wait is over...now we can take action...we have a goal....sort of...well as close as we can when it comes to these kinds of adventures!

But God did not stop there in helping us move on...so to speak...on Saturday we had a family come to view our house.  By 8 pm that evening we had a signed contract ready to turn in to the title company first thing Monday morning!  It was an offer we could not refuse...just what we had hoped to make off the house and be ready to buy some land to build the home of our dreams when we return.  At least that is the plan...we will see what God has in store for us!

Michael was actually at Holy Saturday Mass with Sean.  Their alleluias were even louder and full of joy!  Praise be to God!!!

Now we know we are packing up our things to move west....actually we will leave that for the military movers to do later in the month.

We hope to have everything completed and on our way west by mid-May.  Sean and Henry already know they have qualified for state contests in June.  They want to stay with my mom and fly out mid-June.

We have a lot to do between each of these dates...so if you do not see me on the blog...you will know that I am running in many directions to make it all happen.

Hopefully...the next blog posts will be about Michael's adventures as he heads west this week.

God is good...all the time!  All the time...God is good!

Thanks for praying for us...please continue to do this as we wander through life one day at a time...seeking God in all that we do!


Monday, April 6, 2015

He Has Risen! Alleluia!

What a wonderful Easter we had yesterday!  I feel so blessed!  

We woke up (not so) early and enjoyed a nice breakfast together.  The children played with their little toys and nibbled on chocolate.

Then we put on our new clothes (I always love this tradition as it makes me think of the new creation we become!) from head to toe!  We headed out the door to go to Mass and we even got there early!

On the way, I told the children that it was so important to realize that God loves us so very much.  We just cannot even imagine HIS LOVE for us!  Even though we fail, He is there for us...He wants us to trust Him and follow his plan.  Those who do not believe or doubt often believe God does not care...that when things do not god their way it is because God did not love them...but it usually means WE are the one not caring...or others have not followed God's will and the plans do not happen as they should...often we really do not need what we think we need.

I was reminded of this special kind of unconditional love later in the day while watching Brendan and Zaira....they are so sweet together...I had to get a picture!


One of the other special moments on Easter Sunday is the renewal of baptismal promises.  We are reminded that we are committed to Christ in all things.  Once we have proclaimed our devotion to Christ, we are blessed with holy water to remind us of the moment we become children of God.

When we got to Mass, the church was full and everyone was so excited anticipating the day of events they had planned.  Father spoke to us about accepting the risen Christ as a part of our lives...EVERY DAY!!!!  Do not let this joy of Easter end but flourish.

This is the day the Lord has made...let us rejoice and be glad!  What a joyous sound!

We even convinced Father Justin to take a picture with us after Mass.  Don't you just love our rainbow of colors?  I think we have all the colors except aqua and I think that was the color Michael was supposed to be wearing...such a good looking bunch!  We are so blessed to have our big family...I just wish we could have all been together...missing the older girls...maybe another time soon!

After Mass, we had an egg hunt....Easter Bunny and all!  Thank you to the Knights of Columbus for setting up this reminder that new life is abundant.  Thank you for letting our children enjoy the morning hunting for eggs!

Zaira was not so sure about the whole event...she only found two eggs as the children were running around in every direction.


Then we were off to my mom's house to enjoy a meal together and visit with my brother and his family.  It was a good time and just the right amount of food to enjoy without feeling too full.  It sure made it easier for the cooks...we were able to enjoy the day with everyone else!

We had shrink wrapped some eggs the night before for our own personal egg hunt.  I stopped dying eggs a few years back as I find the wraps are so pretty and easy!  Sometimes we still decorate eggs but I do not think it is missed by the children too much.  They would rather spend the time hiding and hunting over and over...also the wrapped eggs are stronger and hold up to little ones dropping.

Zaira enjoyed our slower paced egg hunt.  She actually had Michael hid the eggs several times...long after the other children had given up on the adventure!



We had hoped to have our annual bluebonnet pictures taken in our Easter clothes.  We hunted for the perfect spot along the way...no luck finding a spot that would be safe to stop.  So...we were glad Michael decided to take Zaira for an after dinner walk.  They found an amazing spot along either side of a neighbor's side yard!  SO...we all made a trip over to have pictures taken!

That ended our relaxed holiday...then it was home again...with much to do this next week...you will never believe how God has worked in our lives over the last four days!

God bless to all...hope your Easter Sunday was just as wonderful!  The Easter season lasts for 50 days...leading up to Pentecost!  Many celebrations in between to enjoy!

Saturday, April 4, 2015

Stations of the Cross


We started out our Good Friday making pretzels.  We would eat them later in the evening.  The children are always so creative.  I think all of us are becoming quite successful in our pretzel making.


One of my favorite customs of the season is the reflection on Christ's Passion through the Stations of the Cross.  In recent years, we have found various ways of bringing this to life...physically but more importantly spiritually.

This year the older boys were asked to participate in a live re-enactment for our church.  Edward and Sean played the part of the Roman soldiers and Henry led the parishioners through the stations.

I was quite proud of them and I would love to share these photos of the experience.

Station 1...Jesus condemned to death


Station 2...Jesus takes up the cross

Station 3...Jesus falls for the first time

Station 4...Jesus meets his mother

Station 5...Jesus is helped by Simon the Cyrene

Station 6...Veronica wipes the face of Jesus

Station 7...Jesus falls the second time

Station 8...Jesus meets the women of Jerusalem

Station 9...Jesus falls the third time

Station 10...Jesus is stripped of his garments

Station 11...Jesus is nailed to the cross

Station 12...Jesus dies on the cross


Station 13...Jesus is taken down from the cross and given to his mother

Station 14...Jesus is laid in the tomb
The stations were followed by the veneration of the cross.  I time to remember our own shortcomings and place them at the foot of the cross.  We kiss the cross to show our devotion.

Thursday, April 2, 2015

Holy Thursday

The Triduum starts today...the three days leading up to Easter Sunday in which we remember the Passion of Christ.

On Holy Thursday, we recall that Jesus gathered the Apostles for the Passover and to prepare them for what was to come.  We now look to this event as The Last Supper.  The symbolic nature of this event carries over to many of our traditions.

Normally, we attend Mass in the evening just as the Passover would have begun.  For those of you familiar with a Catholic Mass, the Gloria (which has not been sung throughout Lent) is sung with bells ringing continuously.  The readings of the Liturgy correspond to the Jewish regulations of the Passover (Exodus 13: 1-14) and Paul's account of the Last Supper remembrance (one of the first accounts that the Mass would reflect the message given by Jesus on this day in 1 Corinthians 11:23-26).  The liturgical readings end with the Gospel of John which tells the story of the Last Supper (13:1-15).

The most memorable moments of the Holy Thursday Mass are:


  • Gloria sung with bells ringing
  • Liturgical readings
  • The Washing of the Feet
  • The Transfer of the Blessed Sacrament
  • The Watch


Now...Michael and I love this time of year and all that is reflected in our traditions.  However, we realize that going to Mass every day (for extended time) for four days is near impossible for small children.  Over the years, we choose to attend some of the Triduum celebration.  The various choices to make this meaningful to our family has changed from year to year.

This particular Mass has always been difficult for young children because of the time (bed time).  SO...we have always tried to find another way to make it understood that it is a special day.  Over the years this has meant a Sedar Meal.

This year was not any different.  We prepared the symbolic meal that reflects a Christianized version of the Passover.  I have even created my own book to help us carry out the meal in a way that flows and is simply done for anyone to participate.  We have had this meal for just our family and other years we have provided a way to share with others (as many as 50 people).  This year we were alone and it was very special.



After the meal, I try to find a way to continue the sacred moment that would occur had we gone to Mass.  I try to create a space for each individual to spend time in prayer to represent the Watch that Jesus asked of his disciples.  (Luke 22:  39-46)   This year each child was asked to prepare a prayer space special for the Watch.  For the older children, they had their Bibles and any other religious items of their choosing.  For the younger children, I found color pages and activities for their prayer time.  We waited until our family prayer time and started out together and then they went to their places.  The idea was to have one hour or prayer but it varied by age.

Traditionally, this watch would last into the night with parishioners taking turns before the Blessed Sacrament.  Holy Thursday Mass does not end but carries over into the next day.  The altar is stripped of all cloths and we process from the church in silence.

For our family, we will leave our family prayer time (We will read the liturgical readings mentioned) in silence and go to our prayer areas.  Then we will proceed to bed in silence (hopefully!).

There is more to come the next few days as we seek to make this time memorable.

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

April Fools

About 18 months ago, we moved to San Antonio and bought a home we love.  We love all the space we have inside and out.  The neighborhood is nice and the children have found friends easily.

NOW...we decided to put our home back on the market to sell in January.  As lovely as it is here...we are on the wrong side of town and almost everything we do is on the other side of town and almost an hour away.

APRIL FOOLS!!!!

Michael has been in the military in some way for over 20 years.  He has taken on whatever job he was assigned without question even when he knew he was not the best fit.  He should be thinking about retiring but he loves what he does so much I do not think he will ever leave.

NOW...shortly after we placed our house under a realtor, the Army offered Michael an opportunity he has been waiting for...a chance to go to school in CALIFORNIA!!!!   He is supposed to be leaving soon but we are waiting for the go ahead.

APRIL FOOLS!!!!!

These events in our lives and others along the way are really not an April Fool's Day joke...they are really happening.

Maybe we really are April's greatest fools.  Are we happy where we are?  Do we need to make another move?  Does Michael need to go to school this late in the game?

I do not know the answer.  However, I know who does...I trust in God to help us make the right choices.  I know that He has a better plan than we can imagine.

I pray daily that we are listening to the whisper of God's voice.  I pray that we are patient.  I pray that we are truly open to what is in store for our family...NO MATTER WHAT THAT MEANS!!!!

I ask that you pray for us also.  No April Fool's Day joke.  We fools need all the help we can get!