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Friday, March 29, 2013

Stations in the Dogwoods

This morning we awoke to the boys plan to have a living Stations of the Cross. Each year we place large pictures of the 14 stations throughout our property on Good Friday to allow the family to meditate on the Passion of the Lord.  However, we have never tried to re-enact the message before.  I was thrilled to hear the boys taking this initiative.

I had also wanted to have home-made pretzels for when we returned from this meditation, so I had Sean and Brendan help me make the dough.  It was good that we started out early because after cleaning the kitchen to have the work space we needed, it was already late into the morning.  However, everyone tried their hand at pretzel making and the special snack turned out well.  Even Zaira tried her hand at making a a pretzel (with Michael's help!)

This was done just in time to head out to the stations.  We were led through the dogwoods by Michael.  He and I led the prayers and reflections while the boys acted out the various scenes of the Passion.  Michael, Zaira and I were brought in only as needed.

The first station...Jesus is condemned to death...Michael was enlisted as Pontius Pilate.

The second station...Jesus takes up his cross...Henry was our Jesus for this re-enactment, while Edward took on the role of the Roman soldier.

The third station...Jesus falls for the first time.

The fourth station...Jesus meets his mother...Don't be fooled...Zaira is playing the part of Mary!

The fifth station...Simon of Cyrene helps Jesus carry the cross...there is some dispute of who played the part of Simon...Brendan is convinced he was Simon and Sean was Rufus...we did not have the heart to tell him that he could barely reach the cross even on tippy-toe!

The sixth station..Veronica wipes the face of Jesus...I was given this special honor to wipe the face of Jesus...very powerful message!

The seventh station...Jesus falls for the second time...we reflect at each of these falls about how we way Jesus down with our sins.

The eighth station...Jesus meets the women of Jerusalem...I might have gotten a little carried away in the drama but it was so good to feel a part of the story...it really did bring new meaning to the experience.

The ninth station...Jesus fall for the third time.

The tenth station...Jesus is stripped of his garments...I was surprised to see actually marks across Jesus' (Henry's) back...when I asked about it...he told me he had Sen do that so it would look real.

The eleventh station...Jesus is nailed to the cross...Does it not look real?

The twelfth station...Jesus dies on the cross...when Zaira had Henry placed in her 'arms' she seemed very concerned...she reached out and touched his face...it made me think that Mary most likely did the same thing...wondering how any thing so terrible could happen to her innocent Son.

The thirteenth station...Jesus is taken down from the cross...the boys taped a plastic bag on his chest so Edward could spear him and look like water came from his side...pretty creative!




The fourteenth station...Jesus is laid in the tomb...Sean did a great job as Joseph of Arimathea...gently wrapping Henry in the tomb.  Edward and Brendan took the initiative to be the Roman guards that guarded the tomb...and Henry took the opportunity to continue the story by surprising the guards as he rose from the dead!


We decided to take it a step further and show the joy of the empty tomb for Easter.  I thought that was a good idea since I am now signing off from my computer until after Easter Sunday.  It was wonderful to see their joy in this presentation and I am sure they will remember this experience for years to come.

Oh...almost forgot to add that we were able to go to Veneration of the Cross later in the day.  Edward and Henry served on the altar and it was a memorable occasion for them as this was a first.  It really does change the experience when you are able to be at or near the altar during this special time of the year.




Thursday, March 28, 2013

The Washing of the Feet

A small group tonight...pray for the families in our church who suffered a great loss.  We had a great man from our church pass away earlier in the morning...I will blog about him at a later date.

Also, a wonderful woman from our church had a major stroke and does not seem to be doing well.  I pray that her family will gather around her and be at peace.  She says she is ready to go home to the Lord.  Our little church is losing so many wonderful examples of faith.

So thankful for these stable influences in our lives.  Including our pastor who is so humble and washes the feet of many in our community. Tonight was just a symbol of what he does everyday for all those he meets regardless of their faith.

We are truly blessed and so thankful for the reminder of these blessings tonight!

Seder Meal

The Seder Meal at St. Mary's with the college students was tonight.  I was so glad to see their faces as they began entering into the student center.  I think they were truly surprised by the importance of the experience.  They were shocked to see the tables nicely set and arranged in a way that would be pleasing.  Our boys also so how important this was as they were eager to help set up and create a prayerful atmosphere for the occasion.

For those of you who might not know what a Seder Meal is...here is a brief description:

A Christian version of the Jewish Passover Seder, or ritual feast of redemption and liberation. The primary aim of the Seder is to transmit to future generations the story of the Exodus.  This Catholic observance of this ritual meal celebrates not only our own Jewish heritage but also teaches the tradition of the Mass, as it is a representation of the Last Supper of our Lord with his Apostles, where He instituted the sacrifice of the Mass and the priesthood.

Once the tables were set and the meal was prepared, we were able to enjoy the prayerful event.  We had set the tables to resemble what it would be like at a family Seder...each table had a space for a 'father' and 'mother.'  These roles would participate in imitation of the head table.  The head table was set up for Father Paul, Mrs. Key, Michael and myself (mainly so we could facilitate the meal).

At the beginning of the meal an opening prayer is prayed by the mother of the table and then the traditional candles are lighted.  Then the traditional meal is divided up into parts to show the importance of recalling the four terms in the Exodus story which describe God's action in rescuing the Israelites: "I brought out...I saved...I delivered...I redeemed."  Each action is blessed with the shared cup of wine.

Traditionally, the Jewish meal would end with the third cup of wine...the fourth cup is not shared to this day in the Jewish home because they do not recognize the redemptive act of Jesus as the desired Messiah.  However, as our Catholic faith reveals, we see the fourth cup of redemption in the telling of the crucifixion when Jesus states, "It is finished."  (John 19:30)  Jesus is the fulfillment of the prophecy.

There are several moments in the Seder Meal that I find quite profound.  No matter how many times we have had this meal...I get worked up at these moments and I remember how blessed we are in our Savior!

First, all the food presented on a Seder plate has meaning:


Matzoh (Unleavened bread) called "bread of affliction" because it recalls the unleavened bread prepared for the hasty flight by night from Egypt. Three large matzohs are broken and consumed during the ceremony.

Moror (Bitter herbs) is a reminder of the bitterness of slavery and suffering in Egypt.

Green herbs to be dipped in salt water. Salt water represents tears of sorrow shed during the captivity of the Lord's people.

Haroset (or 'haroses') represents the mortar used by Jews in building palaces and pyramids of Egypt during their slavery. (It is a mixture of chopped apples, nuts, cinnamon and wine.)

Wine is dipped from a common bowl. The 'Four Cups,' Thanksgiving, Hagadah ('telling'), Blessing, and Melchisedek ('righteousness'), are "four different words for redemption, spoken by God to Moses."

Egg is symbolic of new growth, new hope, and new life.

Lamb with a unbroken shank bone is also served at the meal to represent Christ as the unblemished lamb that was sacrificed for us.  The bone is unbroken to show that they did not break the bones as regulated in the Roman crucifixion.  (John 19:36)

Another part of the meal that is meaningful is the time of the meal when the youngest child asks the elder (in our case Father Paul) why we have our traditions.  We had hoped Edward would ask the questions this year but he got nervous about this responsibility so Henry took over this role.  He asked the traditional Jewish questions and then asked a few questions that relate to our Christian traditions as well.

The next part of the meal that I find very meaningful is the opening of the door to allow Elijah to enter.  Jewish tradition holds that the Messiah will be the return of Elijah, so the door is opened to allow him to return...in fact a place is set at the table for him to join in the Passover feast.

Christian tradition holds that when the door was opened for Elijah is the time when Judas slipped out to betray Jesus.  So, (since we know the Savior has come) it is a way for us to be reminded of the betrayal of Judas.  We take the time to remember our sinful acts that betray our love for Jesus and we ask to be forgiven.

Really the entire meal from start to finish is packed with meaning.  I love that we can do this and pray that everyone went away ready for the Triduum and especially ready for Easter!





Remembering Dad

Sometimes....you have to wonder...coincidence or planned by God from above?

Eight days ago, I was sent an email from my favorite photo book company...I was given a free photo book...I was given seven days to complete the project to get this deal.  So exciting when that happens!  However, this time I was not going to have the time to complete a photo book...also I really did not have any photos I wanted to put in a book.  Pretty crazy right?  In fact, had I thought about it, I probably would have gifted the book to a friend.

However, on day two of this deal, I had an amazing idea that I could use the book to create a project that I had made back in my scrap-booking days (the few that I had done...terribly and very rough completed works!).  This scrapbook was made just after my Dad passed away ten years ago.  I wanted to do something to help the grandchildren remember what a great man he was.  I asked all my brothers and my Mom to help remember an object that reminded them of a story of Dad.

As I said, this was a very rough book...put together on a whim.  I decided that I would take the same stories and try to add a few pictures of Dad to make it into a nicer photo book.

However, I was still short on time during the next few days...as you might have read...I was out of town for days three through six.  I got back exhausted from the experience and decided that I would just have to save that photo book for another time.  It was was great idea but I could not make it happen.

I puttered around with the idea any way but by the evening of the seventh day I knew it was not going to happen.

Then a strange thing happened!  I got a second email from the company!  It said...we noticed you did not finish your free book!  We are giving you an additional 24 hours to complete your project!  WOW!!!  That was awesome!  And although I really did not have the time to complete this book, I decided to try anyway.

Not only did I complete the book (much like the original but with better pictures!), I had two additional pages (not normal for any of the photo books I have completed in the past) that were filled with pictures of my Dad with his grandchildren!

By the time I was completing the book, all the family was involved...going through old photo albums and telling stories of this great man.

At one point I called my Mom to ask for a specific picture I remembered taking of my Dad's graduation.  She was nice and quiet (not normal) and said she could not get it at the time.  I was a little disappointed but told her I understood and was in a hurry to complete the book.  So I hung up and completed the book.

So...on day eight (today!) I clicked the order button on my free photo book and sat back in relief.  And that is when it hit me!

Michael?  What day is today?

Michelle, it is March 27th.

Michael?  Do you realize that today is my Dad's birthday?

I was in such a hurry this last week that it never crossed my mind.  It was especially not on my mind when I was making this photo book or when I called my Mom (who I did call back and apologize...I felt so bad!)

But I was so surprised!  I think it was a special gift from above.  Maybe my Dad was thinking about us too!  I sure miss him!  He was a great man...and I think he is still pretty special and a part of our lives.

When I looked at pictures...I saw Zaira's big smile!  I saw Henry's love for photography and his quiet nature.  I saw my Dad's love for his family! And his love for God!

Not only is today his birthday but in two days we mark the 10th anniversary of his death.  It is hard to believe that he has been gone so long.  God is good and gave us a special reminder of my Dad today.  I am blessed with these memories and so glad I can share them with my children in this special photo book.  Praise God!

The Saga of the Cold Dryer

So..after our long weekend of excitement...the dryer did not get fixed!

We did have a man come out to look at the dryer.  He came in...looked inside the door for the serial number and model number...could not read the faded paper...closed it all up and asked for the $75 fee.  I almost did not give him the money...would we ever see this guy again?!

Well...I paid him...knowing our warranty program would not let him get too far away.

He told us he would research the issue and get back with us.  Michael proceeded to get down on the floor with a flashlight to shine it just right on the faded paper...just enough to read the number.  Or what he thought was the numbers.  I looked them up on line and nothing showed up about dryers.  So we tried again...then slowly started reconfiguring the options until we found our dryer model on line.

We called the company back with the information.  To make a long story short...the parts were ordered...but did not come in until a week later.

The dryer did not get fixed until 10 days...start to finish...we ended up not washing clothes for 7 days...then finally we gave in and washed was was absolutely needed.

No fun but the dryer did get fixed and all is good now!

Here is a picture of what it looks like without washing clothes in our house for over a week!

So glad we can now say we have a dryer!  One of those...you don't know how blessed you are until you don't have something...moments!  Praise God for washers and dryers!!!!

Over the Weekend

Over the weekend, we had some adventures!

We started out with the joy of Mass with the nuns at the monastery.  We even got to visit Sister Veronica.  I shared our quilt adventure with her and let her borrow the book (Lessons from Newtown) to read and share with the other nuns.  Our family also blessed the nuns with our share to the generator fund.  She told me that she had a gift for us also...then proceeded to give us bags of vegetables!  She also told us to make a trip back by later in the week for another Easter surprise!

Then we went to a play about Laura Ingalls Wilder.  This was a very simple production...made even more simplified due to the production crew's stolen vehicle...however, it was a great show.  Zaira especially enjoyed the experience...her eyes were glued to the stage.  Even though she was due for her nap...she kept her eyes fixed on the actors!  She was so fun to watch...I barely watched the show itself!  I love that all our children love the theater!

Then Michael surprised me...he had a small economy car rented for me so I could go on our trip to Austin for the weekend without the "Big White Sail!"  He was happy to do this because otherwise he would have been without a car, but it was still nice for me to enjoy the small car on the road trip as well.

Henry, Zaira and I headed off for a fun weekend in Austin...well at least at the airport in Austin.  Henry had been selected to represent our region at the State Math Counts competition.  He was very excited to go...mainly in the hopes that he would win a computer!  After two days of working math problems that were well advanced for his grade level...and watching other students work these problems in the blink of an eye...he DID win a computer!  He was so excited and could not wait to tell everyone at home...but we decided to keep it a secret until we got home!

Then we went to my Mom's house.  We had only planned to stay for the night and be home in time for Sunday dinner.  However, Zaira had had enough of the car so stayed an extra day.  We were also able to make a side trip to a very large garden store just east of San Antonio...its claim to fame is (amongst others) a selection of over 50,000 styles of mirrors!  We spent the better part of Sunday going through those mirrors so we could find some for our bathrooms.  We had remodeled the boys bathroom over a year ago and never put in a mirror...now they will have one.  All of this search really began because Michael and I will be remodeling our bathroom in May...figured Amanda's bathroom will need some also.  SO...I found mirrors (very large mirrors!) for all the bathrooms in the house for less than $250.  A steal of a deal considering most of the mirrors I liked cost $200 EACH when I looked anywhere else!  I was so excited until I remembered that I was in a little economy car!  LOL!  I could not fit the mirrors in the trunk or any other part of the car.  Mom promised to return for the mirrors in her car and bring them to us next month!  YAY!!!

Meanwhile...back home...Michael was not doing so well.  It seems the dryer was not working!  It would not heat up.  Not such a big problem...we have home warranty that covers the dryer...but it was on a weekend...and he had already washed too big loads of wash!  My suggestion to hang the clothes on the line was a joke as it was raining throughout the weekend...not to mention that it is pollen season and it could likely kill us from the yellow mess that would cover our clothes while they were drying!  So...he was stuck with clothes and the only option was to hope the dryer could be fixed on Monday and he could make a trip into town to dry at a laundromat.

He also had the joy of showing our bees with Sean and Brendan at a Spring Fling downtown.  He would have had Edward with him but the poor guy ended up with an eye infection and his eye was swollen shut!  Edward spent the day in bed resting.

Along the way, they also noticed a VW show in another part of town.  So, the boys enjoyed this experience as well.  It was cool to see how people decorated their vehicles to match their interests or personalities!

All in all, the weekend went well...we all survived the experience and are back together!


Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Walking Through Our Woods

We spent the morning walking through our woods with a man from Texas Parks & Wildlife.  We were a little disappointed because we were hoping to FINALLY have someone help us with a prescribed burn!  Unfortunately, the man thought Michael said FIFTY acres instead of FIFTEEN and he told us it would not be profitable to come out for such a small acreage!

UGH!!!

So then he proceeded to tell two adults (Michael and I) with several small children (8mos-16yo) could handle our own prescribed burn!  It did not matter that we have NEVER done anything like this before and that we have several properties surrounding us with pine farms and a school.  Just be careful and go to work!  Let the kids tamp down any flames that got too much out of hand!

Is he CRAZY!?!??

Well...in spite of the disappointment...we were able to walk around our property with him and discuss the needs of the property.  He also told us what a great piece of property we have (even with the maintenance that needs to happen) surrounding our home.

God has truly blessed us with our home and land.

We have five live springs that flow into an amazingly large pond that is full of catfish and bluegill.  We have hardwood trees mixed with pines, which is intermingled with dogwood, red bud, and many other varieties of beautiful plant life.  We have a gentle hill that slopes down into the pond that makes for a nice runoff for any rain that we are blessed to receive.

We also have fruit trees and bees...a nice garden spot and a beautiful home large enough for all of our family and even a few extras if need be!

Some times it takes a walk through to see what is really important in life.

It made me realize that sometimes it is just as helpful to take a walk through our life blessings.

In spite of the hardships, there are many blessings in my life that are not material.

I have been blessed with a wonderful faith in our Lord and Savior.  I have the most wonderful family...Mom...brothers...husband...children.  And I have friends that care and help me when I am down.  I have a great parish who love the Lord and love sharing their joy with others.  And...although this is somewhat materialistic...we are blessed with the ability to bless others with our time, talents and treasures!

To all these things...may God be the Glory!

 

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Happy St. Patrick's Day

Although most surround themselves with green on this day, I found myself in the middle of the rainbow!  How fitting as I think I have found my new pot of gold on earth...QUILTING!  I just love it!  I am now motivated to finish the quilt I started for Sean months ago!

Since we had completed all the memorial quilts, I decided to sort through all the material we had and had it divided into all the colors of the rainbow.  It turned out that we had almost 100 yards of material in order to complete the different quilts.  I really had no idea we had that much, but now I have a lot of material to make MORE quilts.

We actually started our day with Mass....almost the whole family participated in assisting with worship today.  Sean and Edward altar served.  Michael and I were lectors....and Zaira decided to share her singing voice through the Mass...well at least until she fell asleep.

We also had a guest priest from our local monastery celebrate Mass.  He spoke to us about the greatest of graces as forgiveness.  This related to the readings of the day...Isaiah 43:16-21... Philippians 3:8-14...and John 8:1-11...as the may focus of the day is to seek forgiveness...Paul speaks of this as the desired goal in order to possess Christ's promise of eternal life....and Jesus shows mercy to even the worst of sinners.

Fr. Paul's message was much the same as Pope Francis gave today (surprise sursprise!)...:"saying the core message of God is "that of mercy." He said God has an unfathomable capacity to pardon, and noted that people are often harder on each other than God is towards sinners."

Another good day...I end now as Amanda is telling me a brief version of her novel she is creating!  So much fun...hearing  her talk about fantasy world of characters that take on animal or plant forms.  Maybe you will read her story one day.

Saturday, March 16, 2013

Happy Birthday, Henry!!

So happy to celebrate the special birthday for Henry.  Our family tradition is to let the birthday person choose the meals of the day on their birthday each year.  Also, for special birthdays (1yr, 5yr, 10yr, 13yr, 16yr, 18yr, 21yr, and 42yr) the birthday person is allowed to have a BIG party with people from outside of our family are invited to join in our celebration.  We started this a few years ago to offset the many parties we were having each year...along with the expense!!!   So, funny...because this year we were hit wit ha huge whammy of special birthdays all at once...Henry turns 13...Sean turns 16...Zaira turns 1...Edward turns 10...Brendan turns 5....Amanda turns 21...and Michael turns 42....all within 18 months of each other!  I am the oddball with a special birthday the following year!  Such is life!

So...with all that said...today was Henry's day!  We woke up early to make him his favorite breakfast of hash browns  bacon, omelette and more bacon, along with coffee and grapefruit juice...and a little more bacon please!

We then sat down at the computer and he showed me the engraver tool he really wanted and we got it ordered.  Originally, we were going to buy a computer for him (well...pay half of the cost so he could afford it) but he decided to hold out for a little while.  (More on that later!)

I then had this great idea to have a group picture taken of all the boys!  This actually came up due to a deal I could not pass up on my favorite photo developing site (that had to be used TODAY!!!).

Then we got most of the prep work done for our evening meal.  Followed by a lunch of nachos!

We then raced out the door to get Amanda her lunch...only to find out she would be leaving work early. That was OK...it gave me a chance to see her at her new job...I even got a picture of her with her favorite dress in the shop!  And, once she left work, I convinced her to have her picture taken with Zaira and I...just us girls!

We had a plan to all join together this afternoon at the bowling alley by Henry's request.  He opted out of inviting a lot of other friends to join us...being the quiet hermit that he is.  If I had thought about it...I would have found a few of his friends to surprise him there.  We did have a few others join us for this fun and even with just our family we managed to make a big hoopla out of the event!

We even had Zaira bowling by the time we were through.  It was especially fun to watch her try to roll the big ball down the lane and actually knock some pins down.  Brendan was also a thrill as he was given a special aid to direct the ball...it was shaped like a dragon but the tail was like a slide used to roll the ball.  With this and the bumpers, he was sure to hit a few pins.  He even got some spares and a strike!

Amanda and her friend, Christina (our pseudo-daughter) joined us and they came bearing a gift as well!   They insisted that Henry open it right away...he was very pleased to find a t-shirt with Zelda character, as well as drawing supplies and 13 cents!

Then we had Sam and Cord join us!



We had balls dropping...gutter balls...and gutter bounces...laughs...dancing around the floor...more laughs and lots of pictures (see more on Facebook if you dare)!  We also decided to not play for high score so much as just for pure enjoyment.  To ensure we had no prideful winners or sore losers, we came up with a different way to determine the winner.  We had every one decide the score they THOUGHT they would make and whoever scored closest to that score won a prize!  We still had the bragging rights of high score and lowest score but most important we had fun.

We came home to grill Henry's birthday dinner....bratwurst...German potato salad...fresh garlic green beans...along with JJ's delicious cabbage.  We also made artichoke dip and spinach dip to tide us over until the dinner was ready.  We hardly had room for dessert!

Henry was also given a nice set of tackle from Uncle Sam.  I am thinking there is going to be another trip to the pond soon!

We all hope that Henry had a good day for his birthday...we sure enjoyed celebrating the day with him.  We also pray that he has many blessed days throughout this year and beyond.




Friday, March 15, 2013

A Week of Fun Around Town

Well...while most of the area was on their Spring Break this last week, we chose to keep our noses in the books....well or so we thought would happen.  We just could not resist a few trips into town, as well as some time outside enjoying the beautiful weather!  We will take our 'real' spring break during Holy Week at the end of the month!

As you saw earlier this week, we spent much of Monday at the funeral of one of our World War II veterans from our little church.

Tuesday, we actually did get a good day of school work done before heading to the park for our 4H project meeting.  We had a great time learning about turkeys and deer.

On Wednesday, we took a day to enjoy the museums in town.  We first went to our forestry museum to see the new exhibit..."Timber Town"...and participate in the annual Reading Railroad.  Normally, this activity takes place throughout the indoor and outdoor areas of the museum, but this year there has been a major renovation of the outdoor train exhibit so we were left keeping the reading stations inside.  It was still a great experience, as there was the new train model exhibit inside.  This was set up to represent our area's historical sites and it was hard to keep the children's interest with this hands-on exhibit available for the first time!  We did manage to hear a lot of great books from community leaders (train conductor, librarian, zookeeper, mayor, grocery store workers, businessmen, and pastors).  And, Michael and I both read books to groups of children as well.  In fact, Amanda and Sean took a turn at reading books to children also.  AND...Edward read a book to one of the community readers while she waited for a group to join her station.





After a quick lunch, we made a side trip to our local art museum...there was a new exhibit...“Look To The Past — Reflect On The Future”...We were most interested in the black-and-white photography of Rosa Parks, as she rode through Montgomery, Ala., during the early days of the civil rights movement. We thought it was interesting that in the seat just behind her, a young white man staring almost expressionless was Nicholas Chriss, a reporter who worked at United Press.  He was assigned to interview Mrs. Parks.  We would love to know what these two people were thinking during those days of change.

We also enjoyed other photos from this collection, as well as other exhibits (civil rights photos, early county history, and nature photos) in the museum.  Another new exhibit still being created was available to view...a definite work in progress.  There seemed to be a focus on art created from paper but there was also a creation that represented a playful table and chairs covered with a quilt to create a hide away like we would have as a child.  The children (and Michael) enjoyed this open creation.

As you read in an earlier post, we arrived home to learn about our new Pope!  So amazing to hear the news and learn about this holy man who is now our Church leader.  We also made it to Mass in thanksgiving for our pope.  Fr. Joseph blessed all the blankets and quilts so we can make our delivery to the women's shelter next week.

We thought we would spend Thursday to complete our week of school work (knowing Friday would be busy).  We had a good morning and had just had lunch when we saw a truck pulling up the driveway.  We had surprise visitors!  We finished up the assignments we were working on, and picked up our fishing poles!  It is so nice to have a stocked pond just a few steps away!  We spent the afternoon catching our dinner!  I made an impromptu meal plan switch to add cole slaw (It was as if we planned it when we bought a double bag of cole slaw mix earlier in the week...not a normal purchase since it was not on the menu.), baked potatoes to go along with the fish caught.  I even had time to make an applesauce cake!  A great dinner with good friends!

Then Friday, we woke up in time to head out quick to the VA clinic.  We had our monthly trip to serve sandwiches, donuts and coffee.  We had a slow day at the clinic...we learned that most of the doctors had taken Spring Break also!  So, the patient flow was low...we had the time to talk to the few veterans who arrived for their appointments.  We also left a little earlier than usual.

That early release from serving the veterans allowed us the opportunity to go to a local quilt show!  We loved the time looking at the quilts made by some of own favorite quilters.  The boys even voted for the quilts they liked the most!  We learned about the quilter's guild and hope to join them from time to time when we have the time.  The quilters we spoke to were impressed that the boys were so interested.  We told them about our memorial quilts and we hope to show them our pictures when we attend the next meeting.  (SIDE NOTE:  If you followed those blog posts, I have gone back and added pictures to those posts of the finished quilts!  I also created a book using the reflections called "Lessons from Newtown."  We hope to mail a copy to the priest we spoke to from Newtown soon!)


We did manage to come home and complete most of our school work for the week.  It will eventually be completed so no worries here!  It was a good week of learning.  I have learned that not all learning comes from books!

More on Pope Francis

Now that I have had more time to look at the many reports about our new pope, I felt I should give a little more information and reflection to this amazing event in our Church history.

The Holy Spirit has surprised us all.  Giving us...the first non-European pope...the first Latin American pope...the first Jesuit pope...AND...the first pope to call himself Francis.  I thought it was interesting that we can already see the direction of our new leader.  As one reporter said..."the three keys to his pontificate will be humility, reform and evangelization."

Looking at his humility...above all else this is made clear by his lifestyle and his reaction to being selected as pope.  He chose to wear a simple white cassock without flare or embellishment...as well as no stole, and his pectoral cross was the same simple one that he has worn as bishop and Cardinal archbishop.  Furthermore, when his cardinal brothers paid him homage, instead of sitting on the papal throne, he stood as he received them.  I see this as a way to show that he is an equal to the others.  He even refused to take the papal car that had been prepared for him choosing to take the same minibus he had arrived in along with the other cardinals.  He also picked up his luggage at a Vatican hotel, personally thanked each member of the staff and even paid his own bill. Then, at his first Mass, he delivered a short, unscripted homily — in Italian, not the Latin of his predecessor — holding the cardinals who elected him responsible for keeping the church strong.

Pope Francis briefly addressed the cardinals at the festive supper, after thanking them, quipping, "May God forgive you [for what you have done]."

Pope Francis suggested to the people of his homeland that, instead of coming to Rome for the inauguration of his pontificate on March 19, they make a charity offering to the poor.

Do not let this quiet demeanor fool you!....He will also be a reformer for the Church.  I pray not in the way that the liberal media suggests, but instead as one who will bring the Church into the modern age through prayer.

Here is his stand (which shows his compassionate conservative Church views) on several of the moral issues of the day:

Sanctity of Marriage
During his first morning as Pope, Pope Francis, prayed for nearly 30 minutes at the altar of Rome’s Basilica of St. Mary Major. Before leaving, he greeted a married couple and gave his blessing to a woman who is five months pregnant.

When the issue of gay “marriage” arose in Argentina, the new Pope argued strongly against it, saying “At stake is the identity and survival of the family: father, mother and children. At stake are the lives of many children who will be discriminated against in advance, and deprived of their human development given by a father and a mother and willed by God. At stake is the total rejection of God’s law engraved in our hearts. Let’s not be naive, we’re not talking about a simple political battle; it is a destructive pretension against the plan of God. We are not talking about a mere bill, but rather a machination of the Father of Lies that seeks to confuse and deceive the children of God.”

Pro-Life
In February 2005, he chose to celebrate the Mass for Holy Thursday in a maternity hospital in Buenos Aires, where he washed the feet of 12 expectant and new mothers. Before he washed their feet, he told them that “Some of you are holding your babies in your arms. Others of you are carrying them in your womb. All of you are women who have chosen life. I, as a priest, am going to repeat the act of Jesus, and carry out a concrete act of service for women who have said yes to life. In washing your feet, I am washing those of all mothers, and of my mother, who felt me in her womb."

“Abortion is never a solution,” then-Cardinal Bergoglio said on September 16th, 2012. “We listen, support and understanding from our place to save two lives: respect the human being small and helpless, they can take steps to preserve your life, allow birth and then be creative in the search for ways to bring it to its full development.”

On October 11, 2011, he pointed out that “Children are strength and hope, while the elderly are treasures of wisdom. Help us, Our Lady of Luján, to take care of the little ones and the elderly. Help us to protect life from the time they are waiting [to be born] until they take their last breathe along the way.”

Refusal of the Eucharist
“We should commit ourselves to ‘Eucharistic coherence’, that is, we should be conscious that people cannot receive holy communion and at the same time act or speak against the commandments, in particular when abortion, euthanasia, and other serious crimes against life and family are facilitated. This responsibility applies particularly to legislators, governors, and health professionals.”

As far as evangelization...Just hours after his election, Pope Francis had a message delivered to Rome's Chief Rabbi, in which he remarks, "I very much hope to be able to contribute to the progress that relations between Jews and Catholics have experienced since the Second Vatican Council, in a spirit of renewed collaboration and at the service of a world that can be ever more harmonious with the will of the Creator."  He obviously has a desire to reach out to all of God's Chosen People.  This would also include the continuing efforts to reconcile differences with the Greek Orthodox Church.

Because of his humility and spartan lifestyle, everyone takes his name, Francis, to refer solely to the justly famous founder of the Franciscan order. But we wonder if it is not also a reference to another Francis, St. Francis Xavier, co-founder of the Jesuit order and one of the greatest missionaries of all time. This is, after all, the age that the Church has declared as the “New Evangelization.”

He is a pastor of sound doctrine and of concrete realism.  "When we journey without the cross ... and when we confess a Christ without the cross, we are not disciples of the Lord."


And one last note of encouragement from Pope Francis....Here is a translation of the homily Francis gave at Mass with the cardinals in the Sistine Chapel.  He spoke in Italian without a text.

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There is something that I see that these three readings have in common: movement. In the first reading (exodus 32:7-14) it is the movement of a journey; in the second reading it is the movement in building the Church; in the third, the Gospel (John 5:31-47), it is the movement of confession. Journeying, building, confessing.

Journeying. “House of Jacob, come, let us walk together in the light of the Lord” (Isaiah 2:5). This is the first thing that God said to Abraham: Walk in my presence and you will be blameless. Journey: our life is a journey and when we stop it does not go on. Journey always in the presence of the Lord, in the light of the Lord, seeking to live with that blamelessness that God asked of Abraham in his promise.
Building. Building the Church.

We must go out and confront the world, Pope Francis insists, not simply sit in the pews. “Jesus teaches us another way,” he told his priests in Argentina last year. “Go out. Go out and share your testimony, go out and interact with your brothers, go out and share, go out and ask. Become the Word in body as well as spirit.”


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Bergoglio is a man whose words are matched by his actions.  A man who does what he calls upon others to do.  I think we are going to have our work cut out for us if we follow this leader in the direction he will ask the Church to take.  Be ready as the days and weeks go by as we await for Pope Francis to lead us.



Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Our New Pope

The archbishop of Buenos Aires, Jorge Mario Bergoglio, has been selected to become the next Pope.  Taking the name Pope Francis I (in honor of Francis Xavier), he is the Argentine-born son of an Italian railway worker and is seen as a compassionate conservative.  He is a staunch pro-life advocate when it comes to abortion.  He once called abortion a “death sentence” for unborn children, during a 2007 speech and likening opposition to abortion to opposition to the death penalty.

I pray that his first words as pope will be true to his leadership for the Church:

"Brothers and sisters, good evening!

You know that the duty of the Conclave was to give a bishop to Rome. It seems as though my brother cardinals went almost to the end of the world to get him. But here we are. I thank you for your welcome. The diocesan community of Rome has a bishop. Thank you!

Before all else, I would like to say a prayer for our Bishop Emeritus Benedict XVI. Let us all pray together for him, that the Lord may bless him and that Our Lady may watch over him …

[Our Father … Hail Mary … Glory be]

And now let us begin this journey, [together] as bishop and people. This journey of the Church of Rome, which is to preside over all the Churches in charity. It is a journey of fraternity, of love, of trust between us. Let us always pray for one another. Let us pray for the world, so that a great brotherhood may be created. I hope that this journey of the Church, which we begin today and in which my Cardinal Vicar who is present here will assist me, will be fruitful for the Evangelization of this beautiful city.

And now I would like to give you my blessing. But before I do, I would like to ask you a favor: before the bishop blesses the people, I ask you to pray to the Lord that He bless me…. the prayer of the people for a blessing upon their bishop. Let us take a moment of silence for you to offer your prayer for me.”

[Silence … the Holy Father bows]

[Cardinal N. says … “The Holy Father, Francesco …”]

“Now I will give you my blessing and to the whole world, to all men and women of good will.”

[Pope’s blessing]

Brothers and Sisters,

I leave you now. Thank you for your welcome. Pray for me. And we’ll see one another again soon. Tomorrow I want to go and pray to Our Lady, asking her to watch over Rome. Good night and have a good rest."


It brings me hope to see such a holy man in this role for our Church.  May God continue to be with us as we continue the faith of the one true God, Jesus Christ.

"And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." (Matthew 16:18)

OH!  I had to share this picture of one of our local priests, Fr. Francis, seeing the news for the first time with the rest of us.  Praise God for ALL our holy leaders!


Monday, March 11, 2013

The Loss of Another One from the Greatest Generation

Today Michael and the older boys went to the funeral of another one of our World War II veterans.  It is so hard to think we are losing these great men and women in large numbers in these last few months. Today we felt a little more connection...as he sat in front of us each Sunday in church.  I think it is most difficult to know that a man we saw weekly over the last five years....now gone...was never really known by our family.  Once again the stories were not told and we missed an opportunity to learn history from the source.

James Posky...husband...father....family member...and friend.  Unlike the last funeral we attended, James was well-known by many and his funeral was attended well.  The cars were parked down the road and jammed in all the nooks and crannies.  In fact, I wondered if Michael would even be able to find a spot to sit.  Sean and Henry are getting better in their duties to assist the priest during the Mass.  I am proud of them for trying so hard to give respect to the deceased and their families.  They also assisted at the grave side.  They were able to stand with Fr. Joseph as the final rites were prayed at the grave.  They heard the young soldier play Taps and watched the soldiers fold the flag that would be presented to his widow.

James was blessed to have his family surround him in prayer and love as he passed from this world.  He was the last of nine children in his Posky family to pass on.  He leaves behind a wife and many children and grandchildren to share his life.

We are told in his obituary:  "He served our country during World War II in the United States Army in the South Pacific from 1942-1945. He was shipped to Alaska and then to Siska in the Aleutian Islands. From there he was sent to Hawaii, Marshall Island, Leyte in the Philippines and Okinawa. He is a recipient of the Purple Heart for his injury in battle."

He loved being outdoors...taking on the hard labor of construction work, gardening, fishing, and hunting with great joy!   He loved being a part of his church family as well.

I was very sad that I would miss this funeral for a man who loved the Lord so much.  Unfortunately, I was needed to take care the younger children and also found myself taking Amanda to the doctor.  It turns out that she has bronchitis and an eye infection.  I took her to the doctor during the funeral and she was given meds to help the infection.  We are praying she will be well in order to go to work as she has missed several days now.  The doctor was concerned enough about her eye infection that he had her go to an eye doctor to verify the infection was not a more serious condition.  The eye doctor verified the infection.

It has been a rough winter for us...in fact, Edward was sick over the weekend as well with another virus.  Spring could not get here quick enough and into the summer would be fine with me.  Then we would at least know the weather...hot!  LOL!  This up and down with the temperatures is got to be part of the problem right now.

We did manage to get everyone in the right direction in the afternoon.  Michael took Amanda at the eye doctor and I took the boys to our last 4H Photography meeting.

We are all home and glad for the chance to rest.  I think we are all tired from the race we ran today!




Friday, March 8, 2013

Praying for the New Pope

I have been trying to avoid the internet and computer use over the last few days, but I felt like I should post about praying for the new pope.  It is so much on our minds and in our prayers right now.  I spoke before about how shocked we were by the resignation of Pope Benedict XVI.

On Tuesday of this week, I was sent two emails of interest related to this topic.  The first was to adopt a cardinal to pray for them to have wisdom in choosing a new pope.  I felt like this was a valid request and so we signed up to adopt a cardinal.  We were quickly sent an email to pray for one of the United States cardinals...Raymond Cardinal Burke.  I was so excited to pray for this cardinal because I already knew a few things about him.  He is very conservative...not afraid to tell how the Church feels about various issues ranging from abortion to female priests.  One of the most impressive is his stand on NOT allowing politicians who are Catholic who vote against the Church teachings.   Regardless of his views, we are glad to have this opportunity to pray for this cardinal.  We feel like we are some how participating in the election of the new pope.

Election...not your typical election....but in choosing the next leader of the Church...the cardinals come together to be guided by the Holy Spirit in this decision.  We...by praying for the cardinal...are a part of the greater Mystical Body of Christ and in our prayer we look in hope to see who will be that leader.

The second email I received was a call from the Vatican to pray for all the cardinals.  The idea was that the cardinals were all arriving in Rome by Wednesday at 10am (our time).  They would be entering into a time of intense prayer before the conclave would begin.  We (all the faithful) were being asked to pray with them at this time.  I assumed this information was going to all the churches and would spread through the media.  Since I had little access to TV or internet, I assumed there would be a lot of people praying around the world.

On Wednesday, I asked my Mom if she would like to go to her church with us to pray at the designated time.  She agreed and we headed out for this prayer time.  We arrived and the parking lot was empty.  We decided to go in to the side door of the church to go to the small chapel.  She was ahead of me with the older boys and they walked right in, but when I got to the door it was locked!  She let me in and we realized that the gates that lead into the main church were open and the chapel was closed.  So we were able to pray directly in front of the altar.

We stayed and prayed a Rosary for the cardinals to make wise choices.  I am convinced that it was meant for us to pray in the church building.  The doors should have been locked and the gates closed.  We some how (God's grace) were able to get into the church.  We left feeling so close to God and at peace with what will happen in the Vatican.  Our church will be strong until the end with God's will all things are possible.  We are only to remain faithful!